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2013年12月31日 星期二

2013/12/31 「獨身女性是美國成長最快的族群」

獨身女性是美國成長最快的族群

摘錄自:天下雜誌 經濟學人電子報                        2013/12/27
2013-12-19 Web only 作者:經濟學人

天下雜誌 經濟學人電子報 - 20131231
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結婚率緩步下滑,正逐漸顛覆美國政治版圖。2012年總統選舉中,獨身女性佔總投票近四分之一,而且她們大多投給歐巴馬;歐巴馬在這個族群的得票率領先對手36個百分點。

你或許會認為,這個包括未婚大學生、都會單身母親和離婚專業人士的族群並沒有太多共同點。但獨身女性對民主黨極為忠誠──前提是她們有去投票,而許多人並不會投票(寡婦是個例外,和已婚女性一樣比較常投票)。總體來看,女性一向支持民主黨:歐巴馬的女性得票率領先羅姆尼11個百分點。以此觀之,「婚姻落差」超越了性別落差。

就像科學家會爭論量子物理,部分政治專家也在思考,「獨身女性」是否足以成為一個選民族群,還是說這個標籤只不過包括了各種左傾選民區塊:年輕人、窮人、較世俗派的美國人,以及非白人。要不是三大相互關聯的發展,那應該只是個有趣的形上學問題。

其一,獨身女性是美國成長最快的族群,2000年為4,500萬人,今日已增至5,300萬人──理論上,這讓她們成了最大的選民區塊,比黑人和西班牙矞加起來還要多(但實際上互有重疊)。

其二,民主黨人、特別是歐巴馬團隊,利用民調、登門造訪、商用消費者資料區等各種工具,找出了精確描繪選民的方法。在黑暗時代(亦即2008年之前),競選活動可能會地毯式地掃過黑人和民主黨支持者的主要居住區,鼓勵他們出來投票,並以付費廣告塞滿空中的電波,將時間和金錢浪費在本來就會投票、從來不會投票、可能會投給共和黨的族群身上。現在,眾人在談的是瞄準「特定族群」:將資源集中於只要稍稍說服就會投給正確候選人的人。

由結果來看,要是將婚姻狀況與性別、種族、收入、地理等因素一同考慮,就能更有效率地達成兩大競選宣傳目標,亦即說服中間選民,以及鼓動忠誠但零集散佈的支持者;在購買電視節目廣告、針對特定街道散發傳單之時,情況亦是如此。選民登記專家嘉納(Page Gardner)已製作了各種模型,可以精確地找出獨身女性;保守派在這方面仍舊處於落後。

民主黨募款者、柯林頓夫婦的親信麥克奧利菲(Terry McAuliffe)在11月的維吉尼亞州長選舉中險勝,其競選團隊中的重要人物哈爾(Michael Halle)表示,受到民主黨催票小組特別關注的選民之中,有2/3是獨身女性。麥克奧利菲在獨身女性族群的得票率,比共和黨對手古奇耐里(Ken Cuccinelli)高了42個百分點,因此,麥克奧利菲的勝利可說是來自獨身女性(古奇耐里在已婚女性族群贏了9個百分點)。

第三項重大發展或許可以解釋這個現象:共和黨擁抱的政策和口號,可能被人精巧地用來激怒並團結各種獨身女性。以古奇耐里為例,他獲得提名讓許多共和黨重要人物喪氣,也讓許多激進保守派十分興奮;他是小政府的狂熱支持者,也是反對墮胎、同志權益和無過失離婚的社會保守派。哈爾開心地回憶道,各種不同攻擊策略的測試民調顯示,古奇耐里的社會聖戰激怒了單身女性。

務實派共和黨人知道,共和黨得壓低社會保守主義的聲量才行。即使如此,共和黨可能還是難以討好單身女性;民主黨民調專家雷克(Celinda Lake)表示,不同種族、年齡、階級、宗教的女性,是為了照顧自己而團結,也讓她們比較有機會支持她們視作安全網的強大政府。共和黨希望政府「別管我們」,但那在得自立更生的女性、特別是得獨自照顧小孩的女性耳中,聽起來是另一回事。

維吉尼亞亦反映了此事。布萊思(Tawana Bryant)為維州首府瑞奇蒙的全美有色人種協進會動員黑人選民,同時也在敬拜讚美釋放教會擔任單親媽媽的輔導人員,在墮胎議題上亦採行保守路線;過去,她會在州級和郡級選舉中投給共和黨,但經濟改變了她的看法。布萊恩表示,許多單親媽媽得長時間工作而且沒有醫療保險,連照顧小孩都有困難。由於共和黨誓言裁減食品券並對抗任何醫療補助擴增,她認為「你就是得支持民主黨」。

共和黨不會放棄父母結縭有益小孩的信念,也不會停止質疑歐巴馬的「國家丈夫」破壞了家庭健全。但有些人認為,共和黨應該更努力避免引發單身女性反感才是;共和黨顧問公司共同創立者蓋吉(Katie Packer Gage)提出了一些較為和緩的手段,例如試圖理解獨身女性眼中的世界「有些不同」。代表部分瑞奇蒙貧窮地區的民主黨州議員麥克拉倫(Jennifer McClellan),亦提出了相似的觀點:她代表的單親媽媽知道生活十分「複雜」,也希望政治人物認清這一點。至今,這種同情和務實訴求一直站在民主黨這一邊;對共和黨來說,聽聽這樣的聲音沒什麼不好。(黃維德譯)

©The Economist Newspaper Limited 2013



The Economist

Lexington
The marriage gap

By The Economist
From The Economist
Published: December 19, 2013

Dec 14th 2013 | From the print edition

Republicans should worry that unmarried women shun them.

THE slow decline of marriage is upending American politics. In the 2012 presidential election, unmarried women accounted for nearly a quarter of all votes cast. Their votes went decisively to Barack Obama, by 36 percentage points.

You might not think that a group that runs from not-yet-married college students to inner-city single mothers and divorced professionals had much in common. Yet unmarried women are spectacularly loyal to the Democrats—if they vote, which many do not. (Widows are outliers, voting more like married women.) The "marriage gap" dwarfs the sex gap, by which women as a whole have long favoured Democrats: Mr Obama beat Mitt Romney by a less dramatic 11 points among female voters.

Like boffins squabbling about quantum physics, some political types wonder whether "unmarried women" amount to a discrete voter block at all, or whether the label merely sweeps up various left-leaning slices of the electorate: ie, younger voters, poorer ones, more secular Americans and non-whites. That would be no more than an interesting metaphysical question, but for three big and inter-related developments.

First, unmarried women are one of America's fastest-growing groups, leaping from 45m in 2000 to around 53m today—making them, in theory, a larger block of eligible voters than blacks and Hispanics put together (though in reality the groups overlap).

Second, Democrats—notably the Obama crowd—have found ways to map the electorate with unprecedented precision, using everything from polls and doorstep canvassing to commercial consumer databases. In the Dark Ages (ie, before 2008), campaigns might have blanketed majority-black city blocks or mostly-Democratic neighbourhoods with appeals to register and vote, while saturating the airwaves with paid advertising. That wasted time and money on those who always vote anyway, those who never vote, and those who (gasp) might vote Republican. Now the talk is of target "universes": focusing resources on those who need just a nudge to come out and vote the right way.

It turns out that two principal campaign tasks—persuading swing voters, and turning out loyal but sporadic supporters—are made far more efficient if marital status is added to the mix, alongside such markers as sex, race, income and geography. That holds equally true when buying advertising alongside the right TV shows, and when leafleting selected homes in specific streets. Nationally, Page Gardner, a voter-registration expert, has crafted models that allow unmarried women to be found with great accuracy. Conservatives are still playing catch-up.

In November's election for governor of Virginia—a race won narrowly by Terry McAuliffe, a Democratic fundraiser and member of Bill and Hillary Clinton's inner circle—fully two-thirds of voters chosen for special attention by Democratic get-out-the-vote teams were unmarried women, says Michael Halle, a McAuliffe campaign guru. Unmarried women voted for Mr McAuliffe by a thumping 42 percentage-point margin over his Republican rival, Ken Cuccinelli, arguably handing him victory. (Married women backed Mr Cuccinelli by nine points.)

For an explanation, consider a third big development: the Republicans' embrace of policies and slogans that might have been laboratory-crafted to upset and unite different types of unmarried women. A case in point is Mr Cuccinelli, whose candidacy dismayed establishment Republicans as much as it excited conservative activists. He is a shrink-the-government zealot: targets for his ire extend to municipal swimming pools (for crowding out the private sector). He is also a social conservative who opposes abortion, gay rights and no-fault divorce (as a state legislator, he proposed a bill to make divorce harder if one party disagreed). Poll-testing of different attacking strategies found single women outraged by Mr Cuccinelli's social crusades. "Divorce was a big one," Mr Halle fondly recalls.

Pragmatic Republicans know the party needs to tone down its social conservatism. But even so, it may struggle with singletons. Celinda Lake, a Democratic pollster, says single women of differing races, ages, classes and religiosity are united by a sense of fending for themselves. That makes them more likely to favour a strong role for government as a safety net. Republican appeals for the state to "leave us alone" sound different to women who are in fact on their own: especially those trying to support children.

The view from Virginia

That is reflected in Virginia. Tawana Bryant mobilises black voters for the National Association for the Advancement of Coloured People in Richmond, the state capital. Ms Bryant, who also ministers to single mothers at the Worship and Praise Deliverance Church, takes a conservative line on abortion. That used to prompt her to vote Republican in state and county elections. Economics changed her mind. Many single mothers work long hours in jobs that offer no health coverage and leave them struggling to feed their kids, Ms Bryant says. With Republicans vowing to cut food stamps and fight any expansion of subsidised health care, she argues, "You have to go with the Democrats."

Republicans are not about to ditch their belief that children do better when their parents are married, nor their suspicion that Mr Obama's "Hubby State", as some call it, undermines strong families. But some think it would be wise to try harder not to repel single women. Katie Packer Gage, a co-founder of a Republican consultancy aimed at women, suggests some modest steps, among them understanding that the world looks "a little different" for unmarried women. Jennifer McClellan, a Democratic state legislator for some tough bits of Richmond, makes a related point: the single mothers she represents know that life is "complicated", and want politicians who recognise that too. Such appeals to compassion and pragmatism have favoured Democrats to date. It would not kill Republicans to listen too.

©The Economist Newspaper Limited 2013



2013年12月22日 星期日

2013/12/22 「享受獨而不孤的自由」

享受獨而不孤的自由

摘錄自:Cheers雜誌電子報                     2013/12/19
2012-12
Cheers雜誌147
作者:陳怡伶

「我感到孤單,並不是獨處時,而是過著沒有意義的生活,」這是38歲的美國精品筆品牌CROSS市場行銷主任陳瑩真對「單身生活」的體會。

當記者提出專訪,請她談談「黃金勝女」現象時,意外得到這個發人深省的答案。陳瑩真,大都會中典型的單身女性,留著波浪卷長髮,身材纖細、白皙臉龐襯著自信的神情。還有一點令人尤其印象深刻,她非常享受「一個人」的生活。

一個人,比遇到錯的人更值得

談過幾次戀愛,她也品嘗過兩個人的甜蜜與美好,上一段與英國男友5年的戀情談得轟轟烈烈。「一通電話、一個簡訊,心裡有個寄託真的很幸福,」她回憶,兩個人熱戀的時候,互寄親筆信件、越洋送花,對方甚至想盡辦法找到她心儀的俄羅斯畫冊送給她,這些點滴讓她在分手後,曾一度覺得很失落。

35歲後才回復單身,陳瑩真如何重新「過得好」?

她說,一開始,每到情人節、聖誕節這種節日都會變得特別不開心。於是,她開始學習讓愛情變成生活中「重要,但非必要」的元素。如此一來,找到對的人,是加分;找到錯的人,是減分;現狀,會過比遇到錯的人更好。

她分析,如果將自己的心封閉起來,沉浸在「沒有愛情滋潤」的自憐心態,就算找很多朋友陪伴避免獨處,仍舊會寂寞,「熱鬧的寂寞」往往更令人惆悵。真正學會獨處、對抗孤單的方法,是創造生活的各種可能。這不代表非得用活動填滿所有空白,相反地,陳瑩真開始留點時間給自己獨處。

她會自己一個人看電影、逛街、甚至旅行。有幾次,因為想往外飛的心情太迫切,等不及好友們陪伴,她就買了機票獨自出發。尼泊爾的加德滿都、埃及的開羅,大街小巷裡都有她的身影。

今年,她獨自到美國費城參觀東方州立監獄,雖然一進去難免會害怕,但是她自己聽著語音導覽,穿梭在古代場景裡,卻經歷了一場難忘的歷史之旅,甚至多出不少新發現:「我看到牆上掛了幅狗的畫像,很好奇,後來才知道這是美國第一隻因為咬了貴族而坐牢的狗,」她笑著說。

她記得上一次到費城,是跟朋友一起,要兼顧彼此需要,無法深層地了解這個城市。再次獨自探訪,在那待了2週,才真正體會當地的生活。

豐富屬於自己的美好

陳瑩真歸納出一個公式:「獨處」+「沒事做」=「孤單」。「一旦做有意義的事情,一點都不會覺得寂寞,」她說。一旦懂得獨處,才能真正享受單身的自由,因為生活中所有的嘗試不是拿來填補缺憾,而是豐富屬於自己的美好。

平時,陳瑩真是忙碌的上班族。一到假日,她是個努力圓夢的實踐家。

「現在我最大的壓力,是怕自己生活得不夠精采,耗費了青春,」應該在20幾歲做的事情卻沒做,她希望自己有機會在40歲前努力完成:包括玩衝浪、學飛行傘、泳渡日月潭。

雖然工作很緊湊,陳瑩真卻仍然好奇著自己的潛能,努力探詢身上每個按鈕。她在下班後學著性感的肚皮舞、念著優雅的法文,或在週末背起單眼相機,攀登合歡山追尋天空耀眼的星軌。她發現,這些課程中,竟然9成學員都是女性,讓她從中認識許多不同領域的好友,看見更多元的人生模式。

就像當初攝影課的朋友們有些已經結婚生子,但是這3年多來都會固定聚會,分享彼此生活。

下一步,陳瑩真打算學滑雪,並且因為這幾年國外旅遊累積的經驗,她打算在2年內到國外找到好的產品帶回台灣販售,開啟她的創業人生。

幸福,不是只有「被定義為某人的戀人」一種寫法,當自己面對自己時,也能感到滿足與期待,這正是陳瑩真笑容背後的祕密。